Last year my BF bought a $6.99 bouquet of flowers and split it up between his daughter(10 yrs old) his sister and me,signed my valentine card in fron of me w/out any personal thoughts or anything and threw it accross the floor at me,didn't have any alone time & that was pretty much it.This year I bought dinner& made it after working all day, all he said was it was tough(the meat), borught a half bottle of wine, didn't help clean up, and fell asleep on the living room floor. I gave him his very much looked for and personalized card full of romantic thoughts, and lipstick kisses, and he rolled his eyes, gave him his very sentimental and very much looked for gift, which I could barely afford and only said...where am I going to put it?? witha disappointed look on his face. No thank you or anything, not even a hug or kiss. He didn't even get or 'make' a card for me.Money wasn't even an issue. What the F????????????
Am I being shallow or is my disappointment legitamate?
How is this your second valentine's day with him?
You deserve so much better. You shouldn't be the one trying to romance him -- the man needs to be bold, and strong, and work for your affection, not the other way around. I hope that doesn't sound rude, but I'm sure you agree.
Drop him -- you need someone who appreciates you : )
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